Being Taken vs Being In A Relationship By Don Deewiz

Being taken and being in a relationship are two different things my dear.

Being in a relationship is like searching for something valuable.
But
Being taken is finally finding that thing valuable.

Being in a relationship Is like being in a gulder ultimate search game.
When you are married, that's when you are finally taken.

Don't tell people you are taken simply because a guy asked you, "will you marry me?".
Or simply because a guy told you, 'I love you, I want to marry you".

Nope!
You are not taken yet!
You are still your parents property.

 When we talk of relationship, we have casual relationship, sexual relationship, same blood relationship (ie, brother, sister, cousin etc relationship).
And we also have Godly relationship, which is the serious relationship.

Casual relationship is the normal friends you play with, gist with, talk with without any mutual connections or feelings.

Sexual relationship is also called sex-mate friendship.
You people are only involved sexually without any assurance of marriage.
If you eventually marry, it is by God's Grace, not because you truly wanted to marry.

Any guy that uses the name of love, or marriage to be having sex with you, is in a sexual relationship with you.

Godly relationship is the God-kind of way relationship.
It is the relationship based on God's principles.

When Jacob went to Laban for Rachel, he worked for 15 years with laban as Rachel's bride price, he was close to Rachel, they used to talk, play, gist, laugh, pray, work, etc together, but they weren't involved in any sexual affair yet,
why?
Because they were in a Godly relationship.
They were planning on getting married.
They used to meet one on one.
They used to eat together.

When God is involved in your relationship, sex will not be a priority.
If you are having sex, it won't be because you are in a relationship, it will be because you couldn't control your urge for sex.
You won't have sex because you want to marry that girl, or because he will marry you.

You won't be always demanding sex from a girl you desire spending the rest of your life with, knowing fully well that you will have her all to yourself after you paid her dowry.

You are only having sex because you cant control yourself but.......
It won't be all the time.
You will value her more than sex.
You will value her company, her gists, her laughs, her advises, her plays, her, sweet voice, her person, etc, not sex.